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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Document all drug use. You'll need it so DH doesn't get unsupervised visitation. [/quote] THIS. Document every way you can. Can someone please post for OP some ideas on how to document effectively that a spouse is using? He will deny the drug use and he likely can get (and can afford) a very good lawyer to fight you on custody, visitation etc. He may try to claim you're fabricating the drug claim to try to trash him professionally, to try to get a better custody deal, etc. Even if you think now, "He would never do that to me," you need to be prepared for it in case he goes that route. If he realizes his job could be on the line and at the same time he thinks you can't prove drug use, he might dig in and fight you. You'll need a very tough lawyer. Try to find one with experience in cases where a spouse is using drugs/drinking and who knows how to use that in a custody dispute. [/quote]
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