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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's ok to vent to your spouse who is on a business trip about how sucky everything at home is. The spouse can't do anything about it, is on business travel (which is NOT all fun and glamorous, even in exotic locations), and the only reason for venting is to make yourself feel better. So find another way to do that until the spouse gets home. THEN you can give him a rundown of the circus. I travel quite a bit for work and DH never complains or vents about what's going on at home. I know it's a shitshow and utterly exhausting for him with two small kids, but he keeps it to himself until I get home. By not putting it on me during my trip, he allows me to focus on work without worrying about what's happening at home or feeling guilty about not being able to be there. I am so grateful that he handles it this way because if it was an issue every time I had to travel, it would affect my career and also our marriage. [/quote]
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