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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We didn't find out for either of our kids either.  For the first it was because we struggled to get pregnant and it was just our way of trying to inject something "fun" or "interesting" back into the process.  Plus, we were so happy to be pregnant that we just did not care what the sex of the baby was.  Then, we just decided it would work just as well for the second.  If I felt strongly one way or another, I would have found out beforehand.  I wasn't trying to be an asshole, as another poster indicated.  DH and I were doing what worked for us.

There were definitely people who reacted negatively to our decision, but oh well?  Their problem.

We also didn't share names ahead of time and again it wasn't because we were trying to be assholes or get more attention, it was because we didn't want to hear other people's opinions.  I knew there would be people who didn't like our choices and I didn't want to hear it.

OP, you do you - if anyone feels that strongly about the choices you are making, it says more about them than you.[/quote]

I had to check the date because I felt the same way. And infertility was why we didn’t find out with our first too. [/quote]

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