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Reply to "Making it work when the wife is the one with the "big job" - s/o today's NY Times article"
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[quote=Anonymous]For all the pps are who are arguing that the dh shouldn't have to be the primary parent/hh manager because he also works full-time and makes 200k: It was a mutual decision to prioritize her significantly higher paying job. He agreed to this. It sounds like he enjoys the material rewards of a partner who earns as much as OP does. For this arrangement to work, he (as the lower earning spouse) has to do the lion's share of the domestic work. OP shouldn't have to think about anything except her work. [/quote]
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