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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] To the stove; give me the heat and then I’ll add the wood.
 
Most of these InCel type guys seem to have the world backwards;  people like to hang out with who they feel good around and people feel good around people they don’t want anything from them and people who truly enjoy them for who they are.

It would be highly unlikely that one of these InCel dudes has a lot of friends because guys like that aren't capable of being real friends with someone;  everything to them is about who is a loser and who isn’t, who is richer etc.

So if you’re reading this Incel guys  you don’t need to work on your game, you don’t need anything except a giving spirit, a genuine interest in others and pure intentions- once you’ve mastered these skills you will be having all of the sex you could ever want.  Of course when you do wind up with someone who truly cares about you and you will  look at her with disdain and think that she must be a loser for liking you because you have a core built around self-hatred.

45 M

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Whoa, PP! Great response!

On one hand, I feel sorry for the incel dudes because they have such low self-esteem and think that women are just out to "get them" for their money or what have you.

When in reality I do not think that anyone who qualifies as incel would be terribly successful or attractive in personality or humor due to self esteem issues (note I did not add looks). So that point would be moot. Furthermore, most women really are not looking for a man to be their savior these days. Women are successful in their own regard and are able to support themselves. So no knight in shining armor is necessary but an equal partner is. I agree that the core of the incel is built around self-loathing and not by how actual women have treated them - aside from their mother's of course. That's a whole different thread, I think and I think where most of this stems from.

I feel sorry for these guys.

40 something F[/quote]

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