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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would fly to CA. Ask your brother to schedule an appointment with the doctor so the 3 of you can sit down and talk face to face. Ask to speak with the doctor alone too, if necessary. Forget about his family issues, his mental health should be the focus. [/quote]

From one of the pro-boundaries PPs, do NOT do this.  It establishes a terrible precedent.  Moreover, you can't speak to the doctor alone about your adult brother's health issues, in that the doctor won't disclose anything unless your brother signs a disclosure form.  You don't even necessarily want him to do that; he's a reasonably functional adult, not someone over whom you have guardianship.  If anyone should take him to this appointment, it's his wife.

Hold. Those. Boundaries.[/quote]
[b]You speak as someone who has never dealt with mental health issues.[/b] It is scary and isolating for the patient. Risk of suicide is real. OP’s brother has reached out to her for hell. It is not the time for boundaries. It is time to help him get a diagnosis and meds.[/quote]

Speaking as someone who has had a suicidal adult spouse, PP is 100% correct about what the doctor will and will not do, and also about what OP can reasonably do and sustain. [/quote]

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