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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. I have a lot of trouble processing these posts because I think many of them completely invalidate OP's feelings about her late husband's child. Yes, the child was young and was behaving terribly. But what's wrong with OP simply ignoring her requests for contact? It's not like they had lived in the same house or had any relationship. If OP didn't have a child with her late husband, would this person still want to be in touch? What exactly does she want? She still has her bio mom so I don't buy all these PPs lamenting about her "trauma". There are people in worse circumstances and this person needs to learn to not harrass the OP. [/quote]

I agree but we have a similar situation and most do not understand it. I would respond as either she wants money as mom kept it all or spent it all or something else. My guess is she will do a few emails and they leave her alone.  I do not consider my child siblings with my husbands adult kids given how they treat dad and no contact with child. Mine know who they are and no secret but they chose no relationship after we tried for years so i would feel the same way op did.  However mom probably has a huge role to play in this. [/quote]

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