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[quote=Anonymous]Her giving him more money does not mean she loves him more, it means she feels he needs it more. You need to let go of this notion of fairness and how much money and things he gets equals affection. It doesn’t (necessarily). The world does not provide equally to all people and neither do parents. As much as we try to raise our children into intelligent, independent, self sufficient adults, sometimes that doesn’t pan out. You have two kids: if one marries well, makes a good income, has healthy kids going to great school and the other is barely getting by, married to a jerk, and has kids that are struggling from an unstable home environment, are you going to be able to maintain giving them the exact same resources and time from you in order of fairness? Try to give her some grace and let her do what she feels is best with her money without putting your emotions into it. [/quote]
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