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[quote=Anonymous]This is an old thread so it doesn't really matter but anyone in this situation should consider the following tough love message: No. It's not emotional abuse. It's your husband letting you know, in a very unhealthy and convoluted but VERY obvious way, that he doesn't want to be with you and doesn't love you. Everything you describe - the mocking, the ignoring, the hurtful comments, the withholding of loving comments - is a reaction toward someone you don't love pressuring you to behave lovingly. Withdraw or leave. Don't make yourself a target of abuse by pressuring someone who obviously doesn't want to be you to be with you. [/quote]
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