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[quote=Anonymous]Is he a good father? This is an awful situation and I'm so sorry. Ignore the judgemental bashers. If you don't love him and he is a burden and/or mediocre dad, I'd cut him loose. If he's an exceptional dad that can handle DCs care including the many therapy appts, drop off/pick up then a mediator to lay out a financial compromise. Take over all of his expenses and extras, put him on a budget and have him do household/child care. If you are doing it all, then he needs to get a 2nd job. My best friend was married to Peter Pan. Her son is a brilliant artist but has some mild issues. She paid all expenses, including xDH biz. He was unable to profit from biz because he is a sloth, no hustle and smoking the weed he planted at various landscaping jobs. She couldn't get out until he DS was HS bound at a prestigious art school, full pay. Kid is a prodigy 2E. She found a way. It may take time for you, but you'll find a way. She's unsure of her DS's future as an artist, but just got engaged to a man that is her xDH antithesis. Wishing you the best OP! [/quote]
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