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[quote=Anonymous]We are a one and done family of 3. DD is only 7, but after a rough pregnancy (borderline HG and SPD) I have felt no pull to have another child. I'm 38, so there's still some time, but at this point I cannot fathom "starting over". It's incredibly awesome having a child that can take care of themselves (for the most part).

Yes, DD would have LOVED a sibling (and would be an amazing big sister), but we'll most likely get a pet in the near future. She has cousins her age, but unfortunately they live in other states. She does have good friends and we try to have playdates often. She's involved in activities (girl scouts, soccer, and swimming), and it's wonderful knowing one of us will be there. We do often take other kids as well.

Will I feel differently in 10 years? Maybe. My concern is moreso when DH and I are older and tough decisions need to be made. I don't want that all on her, so we are keeping up with the paperwork (will, trust, power of attorney, etc) and making sure last wishes and all are written down. While she won't have a sibling to "shoulder the decisions", hopefully she will have a spouse, friends, cousins, etc.[/quote]

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