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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?[/quote]

He’s 63 and I’m 61. [/quote]

WTAF?? I am just a few years younger and I truly can't imagine fighting about anything, particularly Ubers, all night. How can that conversation even go beyond 5 minutes? Do you or he have substance abuse problems? Because this is just not normal behavior for mature adults.[/quote]

It's because OP has no clue how to deal with a panic disorder.  She fights him because she thinks his opinion is wrong.  Except when you have anxiety, that doesn't work.  So her reaction spiraled him into a panic attack, which caused even more fighting.   All this would have been avoided if OP didn't have this toxic need for her opinion to be right and valid on such a silly topic.  The whole thing would have been avoided if OP had just said" yes, I can see how it could be unsafe" and then later vented to her friend about her DHs anxiety about it.  [/quote]

except Ubers are not unsafe.  [/quote]

I agree. But when someone has a panic disorder and anxiety and you're discussing such a small think like Ubers, it's best just to inwardly roll your eyes and move on. There is no need.to win every disagreement or to always be right.  [/quote]

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