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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can we just be honest about it? No one person can satisfy another's total needs. It would be better for people to come up with an arrangement that works for them rather than going through all the lying and cover ups. I used to be disgusted at swingers, but if a couple swaps with another and has communicated boundaries, why is that a problem? [/quote] +1 the fact that so many couples have to spend time and money on counseling and other ways to reignite attraction and their sex drives after many years suggests the social expectation isn’t quite panning out. I mean, really, let’s face it. We live an average 70, 80 years and maybe 40 or 50 of those years not just sleeping with but supposedly being best friends with the same person, meaning you shouldn’t even have emotional ties anyone of the opposite (or same) sex you have an attraction to. Maybe it worked when we were kept in line by religious institutions and died by 40 of a toothache. [/quote]
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