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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ONS prior to marriage.  I was at a bad place in my life for a variety of reasons, primarily unemployment that just impacted me in a particularly negative way.  Nothing to do with her, I just couldn't handle life at that point and slowly imploded in a variety of unhealthy ways that culminated in a ONS.

Turns out OW got pregnant...talk about bad luck.  Other than paying CS I am completely no contact with her.  I would completely block her from e-mail but I have to pay my pro rata share of the medical bills.

This happened about ten years ago so I don't remember many of the details about how we got through it.  Obviously, she was very upset and I felt horrible for failing her and myself so badly.  Probably at least once a day I think about how badly I screwed up.  My current financial penance is working a job I don't particularly like but pays enough that the CS does not financially impact us. [/quote]

Focus on being a good father, in addition to paying the child support. A good wife will forgive you, and support you being a good father. [/quote]

He already said he doesn't have any contact with her. She chose to have the child which he probably didn't have a say. His choice is to make a family with his wife. [/quote]

That's messed up...
Dude you ain't got no contact with you kid at all???[/quote]

Why should he? Because of obligation? That won't make a good father. Either be a 100%, or completely get out of the situation.

The worst thing for a child is a guy in and out of their life. Honestly, if my spouse/bf got another woman pregnant I would be out of there. If I were to stay he would have to completely get rid of this woman, kid of not. A sperm donor means nothing. I think when you decide to have a child, and aren't in a relationship you need to accept all the responsibility. His is only financial which he is meeting.

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