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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cheated twice during my 25 year marriage.  He never knew about either one.  We got divorced for other reasons.  That was a long time ago and we are still friends.

Best way to stay happily married is for the spouse to never find out.[/quote]

You are not and never will be happily married.  Don't kid yourself and don't assume he doesn't know.[/quote]

LOL maybe I wasn't clear.  We were happy for most of the 25 years and he doesn't know.[/quote]

You wouldn't have gotten divorced if it was a happy marriage!

Let me tell you, people catch deceitful people one way or another. If you're a cheater no doubt you're a liar and cheater in other areas as well.

The fact you believe not getting caught was essential shows the kind of person you are.[/quote]

It wasn't that happy the last five years and I wasn't cheating then.  But I'm very happily divorced and have been for years.  I am not a liar or a cheater in other areas.  I don't really care what kind of person you think I am but I do care what kind of person my ex thinks I am and he and I are good FRIENDS!  You are really very smug and self-righteous.  I stand by what I said, if you want to stay married hope like hell they never find out. That means your dalliance didn't cause them immeasurable pain and heartache.  And by the way, my cheating consisted of a ONS and a three night fling, not a long term affair.  You really don't know everything you know.[/quote]

I wouldn't cheat so that's not something I would ever have to worry about. You may not be good friends if he found out.

A ONS or 3 night fling is still cheating and pretty low.  However you cut it, shows a HUGE personality flaw.[/quote]

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