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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. I think the reasons you cite ... "it felt good" "It made me feel young" and most importantly, "I wanted to step away from real life, this husband, and challenging children and have some uncomplicated, selfish me time ..." resonate with me. I have excuses, of course. I have some resentment directed at my husband for action/behavior that let me and our family down. I'm still married, but shouldn't be. I'm still married, but not a loving wife. I'm still married and faking it much of the time. Husband is a fine person. No plans to divorce. Hoping I'll curl out of the U-curve of unhappiness and discontent soon. [/quote] You sound like the prototypical sexless wife who stays married (for convenience/finances/security) despite boredom, resentment, and contempt towards DH. I hope you (unlike most on DCUM) understand he is not just taking care of himself in the shower. Fortunately for your DH, there are plenty of sexless bored wives like you who will fall right into bed with him after a bit of flirting and male attention. Is this not exactly what happened? Another happy DADT marriage.[/quote]
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