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Reply to "We've been dating for less than a year. Now he has a serious, life-altering illness."
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[quote=Anonymous]You have to get out. Rip the bandaid off. Yes it's going to feel shltty and honestly, yes, maybe it is a "bad" thing to do. But this is your WHOLE LIFE we're talking about here. Do it as kindly as you can (I agree with the advice to wait 3-6 months if you can - but definitely renew your lease in July), be as honest and kind and supportive of him as you can be. But do not throw your life away out of some sense of duty. A situation like this would be hard enough if you were really, truly, deeply in love - it will be impossible for you given that you would be mostly doing it out of fear of being a "bad person" otherwise. It won't end well no matter what so just rip the bandaid off when you can. I'm sorry you're in this situation. FWIW I have been with my husband for a decade and there's no doubt in my mind I would stick with him if something like this happened - and it's BECAUSE I feel that way about him that I'm telling you that if you don't, you shouldn't. [/quote]
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