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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My first thought is it's a camper or boat that will make OP identifiable easily. No one wants their neighbors in their business.

Not much advice except you both need to sit down together and figure out what kind of life you want (working all the time doesn't sound like much of a life to me) and work TOGETHER to come up with a plan to achieve that life. Figure out what truly needs to be done on a daily basis and when, then divvy up the duties. Outsource what you can...if kids are in school, have them eat lunch at school vs packing lunches every day, buy precooked chicken and salads a couple times a week, have someone help with housekeeping or laundry etc. See if you can buy back some time. Look for a job that's less demanding (personally, that's where I'd start.)

The key is you both take on the household responsibilities and you both get equal down time, but you need to work together to figure out the best way to make it happen.[/quote]

It doesn't matter what it is.

OP doesn't like the way her husband prioritizes his time.   She thinks he wastes time that she thinks he should be doing other things.

She hasn't explained why she thinks it's up to her to decide how her husband uses his time, though.[/quote]

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