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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reason I can’t tell you guys what it is is because it’s such a large, unwieldy and frankly strange item that my entire neighborhood would know who I am at this point. I haven’t really touched on that but I am also very upset about the size of the item. Let me explain what our weekends are like. I am not biglaw but work biglaw hours with the associated salary. I am constantly behind on work because of stuff I have to do for the kids that my DH won’t do (I won’t get into the specifics but trust me on this- all the random kid shit is my responsibility). He already has plenty of hobbies and gets this into this hyper focus mode where he devotes every free second to the hobby du jour and I have to pick up the slack, which frankly I do not have the time or the emotional bandwidth to do. At all.[/quote] I feel for you, but it sounds like this purchase is a symptom of a larger problem, which is in inequitable division of labor in your household. [/quote]
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