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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the fixation on the item? How does it matter? She’s explained why she’s opposed— because it will drain time she doesn’t not have.  [/quote]it's

It's called "information."

Rational people try to get "information" before making a decision or a judgment.

Before anyone can decide whether the purchase was wise or unwise, we have to know what it is.

There is no "fixation" on the item.

But OP's refusal to tell us what it is, is clearly deliberate, and the ONLY reasons she's refusing to divulge it, is because she feels, or knows, that her opposition to it is unjustifiable.

To put it to you in terms that maybe are simpler, so you can understand on a level you are capable of, let's say OP and her spouse were fighting over a birthday gift for a baby.

OP tells us "My spouse bought a totally inappropriate gift for the baby, we had a big fight over it, who was in the right?"  but won't tell us what the baby gift was.

It makes a difference if the baby gift is a rattle, or a rattlesnake.

But if you believe willful ignorance is a good basis for you to make decisions, or render advice, then my hat is off to you, PP.[/quote]

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