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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]9 kids in my family. You basically don't get to develop a deep parenting relationship with each individual kid. There are other benefits for the kids (independence, fun, family belonginess) but a lot fewer parental resources for each one.

[b]I think 4 kids is really the max if you want to be close to your lids[/b]. [/quote]
Based on your one experience. It really depends on financial situation; what you can hire out. The temperament of your children. So many things. 
We have hashed and rehashed the really large families on this board and had all the haters come out. OP is talking about four here, not fourteen. [/quote]

How many people can have 4+ kids and still afford to "hire out" to a significant degree?  Also hiring out doesn't really solve the issue of individualized attention.  My family had paid help, and they couldn't really pay attention to individual kids either.  [/quote]
Lots of people in this area can afford it. I’m a SAHM to more than four, and we hire stuff out. I personally know 6-7 others in the same situation although it’s not representative given my husband is in a high paying job. 
Just because you can’t fathom it, or don’t like it, doesn’t mean it can’t work. [/quote]

you can't hire out parental 1:1 time with the kids.  If you have 4 under 8 to put to bed, everyone is getting 1 bedtime story all together.  [/quote]
Some kids have two working parents and get no bedtime story. You are going to criticize the poster who said hers were spaced out and can read the baby it’s own story, you’re going to criticize the ones who have 4 under 8 and read a group story, because you simply don’t like large families and don’t even parent one! Go away. 
I will say kids from larger families seem to be more easy going, flexible and less self absorbed. You should take a lesson from them. [/quote]

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