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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Set up a private email.  Clear your phone regularly.  Go see a lawyer and pay the lawyer in a way that he won't be able to see.  In other words - run this operation like it's matter of life and death.  Gather information - the lawyer will tell you what you need.  You're going to need to photocopy (or print out) things like bank records etc if you think he will try to hide assets.  Rent a place and start furnishing it and making it a home, and do all the prep work involved to leave, so when it happens you can cleanly leave and move into a safe space.

Document, document, document.  Meanwhile, do not provoke.  Calmly and rationally send me emails (and print them out) that state the specifics of what happened, but leave details/emotions out.  Suggest in writing counseling.  In other words, on paper (and in real life!) be the reasonable one.

But most importantly see a lawyer (or two) and know your rights.  Take no action until you know what your plan will be.

There is a yahoo group in this area called GoMomGo - it's a support group for women in divorce.  Many. have bene in domestic violence situations.  Apply to join and you will learn a lot from the other members.  [/quote]

This is fantastic advice. [/quote]

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