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[quote=Anonymous]OP - your problem is that you think people are as considerate and mindful as you. They are not. Now you know that. Stop covering for them and either let them suffer their own consequences for their own ineptitude, or take things back from them before they leave that very day. People are lazy. Some people are users. Let me guess, you might have nicer stuff than them? Do they think you can spare it, for some reason? If so, they are judgy and not good friends (maybe not good people). It is a sign of bigger problems for them. That is not your problem. I know someone whose daughter used to have sleepovers almost every weekend. Always her house. After a while, she started noticing the same group, and clothes were often missing. Always some excuse for "borrowing" (really, stealing) stuff. That was the end of that. Some people have sticky fingers, OP - or somehow think you have something they don't. Now you know. Act accordingly. [/quote]
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