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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whether you will be able to date again should not factor into your decision to divorce.

The fact that you seem to be unable to be alone suggests you have some issues that need to be addressed.

Fix yourself, then determine if the marriage is saveable.[/quote]

OP here: I am fine being single forever—as I mentioned. I am not looking to “date”—that is a straight-up boyfriend. That is not what I am looking for. I want a monogamous casual thing a few times a month...pretty much sex only or hanging out at home. I am not interested in going on dates. My concern is that men will want more. I don’t. I have hated being married and it should not have happened. Not salvageable. You did not understand my post.[/quote]

Ok. Now that you know you can get a regular dicking, feel free to blow up your kids’ lives.[/quote]

OP here. That is a messed up thing to say. Kids will be fine. Divorce does not have to be traumatic. I
It is when parents are vicious. We will not be. They will not suffer financially and they will see us both a lot. Being in a miserable marriage (from the start) is no way to live the rest of our lives when divorce will happen anyway. Also, this is a bad example of a normal marriage for kids. There will be a transition, but it will not damage them permanently. [/quote]

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