Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Money and Finances
Reply to "Husband concealed credit card debt"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP - I think there is a difference between a) running up debt out of a love for shopping b) paying for basic family needs c) buying things you don't need due to being a hoarder If it was b - how did you think the bills and needs were being paid? are you a dual income family? Was all the pressure on DH to pay for everything and he couldn't? B isn't a DH issue - it is a marriage issue that he didn't feel he could tell you that he couldn't pay the bills. If it is a - and he just doesn't care about the finances or how much money you are in debt - that isn't going to change. That is an attitude problem. If it is c) then he needs psychological help. That is a mental illness and it isn't going to easily improve either. If he is buying compulsively and can't let go of things - you will have not only a money issue but also a storage / hoarder house issue.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
