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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] :thumbup:  :thumbup: [quote=Anonymous]OMG. So many of you are worse than teenagers. OP, I was blown off by my best friend in a cruel way at age 13 or so. It sucked, I cried a lot, and it would have helped if my parents had normalized the experience for me (sorry that happened, even friends make mistakes, relationships change) and encouraged me (she is the one making a mistake, this happens to lots of people and you will find your group again). I did recover and did find new wonderful friends. By senior year in high school previous best friend was hanging out with some people in my "friend group", and by the end of the year we were friends again, though not close.

Moving on through college and adulthood she has been one of my most cherished friends. We never talked specifically about the "break up" other than she did mention the period of her life when she was trying very hard to fit into the popular group as being her unhappiest. I never relished hearing that, never felt smug or that she got her due karma. I felt badly for her, because growing up is hard.

The adults on here hoping this girl will suffer one day are a-holes. Do not model them. [/quote][/quote]

I don't want anything bad to happen to the girl, but[b] I am willing to meet up with OP & her DD to toilet paper the birthday girl's house the night of the party[/b].[/quote]

Ha! This made me laugh because in the part of the country where I grew up, people only did this as a show of affection to people they liked! It actually would have been sad to have been the kid in my high school who never had your house TPd at least twice a year by friends or a guy who liked you and his friends![/quote]

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