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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Teen DD was the one who discovered the affair and came to me about DH cheating.  DH pretty much called her a liar, but eventually came clean.  DH and I have decided to try to fix the marriage, but our DDs are furious and betrayed.  One can't believe I've allowed him back in the house and thinks I'm choosing him over her, the other wants him here.  This is wreaking havoc and I realize the kids shouldn't have a say in the marriage itself, but I do want to take their feelings into consideration.  Has anyone ever been in this situation?[/quote]

I think your daughter needs individual therapy and family therapy. He really screwed up by saying she lied. That is a deep betrayal. How long was he gone from the family home? I know two people whose parents split up (the father left the family home), and then their parents eventually got back together. The reconciliation was as tough as the divorce. They felt like their parents were going to split up at anytime and were just waiting for it to happen again (and in one family's instance, the parents did eventually divorce). Your husband is going to have to be the adult and a bigger person, and take a bunch of shit from your daughter. Is he up to it?[/quote]

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