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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand what the problem is. You are still having sex 1-3 times per week. I initiate sex most of the time with my husband. I think he prefers to wait for me to initiate because he knows it will be better if I’m already interested. It made me mad a little but then I thought about it and realized how many times he initiates and I say no or take a long time to get into it. So I think he knows that if he just waits a day or two I’ll end up initiating anyway. However, I will say, when I initiate, he never refuses and never has trouble getting aroused, and it sounds like your husband does? But I don’t know, all your requirements for cleanliness etc make me think maybe your husband is just like I’ll wait until she’s ready rather than getting shut down bc the circumstances aren’t up to her standards.[/quote]

This is basically my marriage.  If I initiate, it's at best 25% chance but if I wait for DW to indicate she is willing it will happen.  Funny thing is DW will still comment time to time how I should initiate more but it either leads to rejection or starfish sex she doesn't want to have.  I just assume women want to be wanted without wanting the actual sex.  I don't think this is OPs scenario because she seems to want it more than she is getting it.[/quote]

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