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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom would tell you her story is positive, because she really does love her AP.  Unfortunately, it has negatively affected our relationship since the day I caught them when I was 14.  And it cost her some friendships and standing in the community, and of course her integrity.  We will never be a big happy family because her AP's adult children are on drug.  She financially supports him as well.  So she might think it is a happy story but I think that is just her denial and the price others have paid was far too high.[/quote]

+1.  Ex cheated extensively, and I kicked him out. 10 years later he is married and, on the surface, the kids get along with NewWife and him.  He would say it was a “positive” story.  The kids would tell you otherwise.  He has caused them a lot of pain, and the kids have just come to accept that he is irresponsible and they will never get what they want/need from him and have come to accept whatever crumbs he offers.  [/quote]

+2. My fad had a (rather public) affair with his coworker when I was a kid, and another child came out of it. He married his AP and they raised the kid (my half sister) together. We still get along ("on the surface," like you said), but it's hard to look at him with a high degree of respect knowing what he did. Luckily, I got a truly wonderful step-father out of it all (who I refer to as my father when my real dad isn't around), but still - it changed things. [/quote]

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