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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry you're going through this OP! I was in your shoes less than a year ago-- finding out about my spouse's affair was devastating (and his was MUCH more involved)-- I had loads of sleepless nights, fits of overwhelming anger and hurt.

Please don't do anything rash or let the kids know of what your DH did. Look for therapy for you and marital counseling for the both of you. Confide in only a few close friends. I think your DH told you because he is remorseful. [b]There is no shortage of "leave him" responses here but affairs are VERY common and most marriages do not end just for that reason. [/b]For every post here castigating a cheating spouse there's 1-2 more from posters looking for an AP or bragging about cheating or admitting to it.  Anyway just leaving your spouse is not such a simple option when you have kids and there is love in the marriage. You need to explore why this happened in counseling and decide over time what you want/need to do.

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I would say when the man finds out the wife has cheated they do more often end the marriage for that reason. You wouldn’t find as many people saying if she is remorseful and does the hard work to stay and forgive and take the high road.  Do agree though that OP needs to explore in counseling why it happened and then go from there.[/quote]

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