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[quote=Anonymous]I always loathe the “she’s hormanal” thing. I didn’t “get hormonal” (although some women do.

This woman is already a 24/7 parent, and it’s time you step up too. She has to watch what she eats, what she drinks, what she does, go to doctors appointments, etc. She’s quietly doing kick counts, planning her hospital bag, and worrying about how she’s going to handle a newborn.

I’m guessing you kind of presented your outing like you were going to Jim Bobs for a quick visit, or a beer or two. That’s why she texted to see when you’d be home. Of course, you already knew you’d be out all evening. You want to play the “she won’t let me anymore” card, rather than “I won’t grow up” card.

Here’s the thing. Yes, you’re “allowed” to go out until midnight still. BUT - your communication about it needs to change, and your expectations about how and how often you do it has to change. Like it or not... you have a child, and you have a child NOW. What if your wife had gone into labor and you missed the text for two hours? I know you’re thinking it’s unlikely - but like it or not, it’s  far off the realm. You need to step up your game in favor of your wife and family, starting now.

So, like I said, I wasn’t normal during pregnancy. I’m pretty easy going about nights out, etc. But, if you were vague on an outing, then failed to respond to texts, and CONTINUED to be vague, Especially when I was 30 weeks pregnant, id fail to be impressed too. You dropped a major ball.

I’m curious to know how many times this has happened in the past, or recently, or a whole bunch of other things. [/quote]

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