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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who's often called pretty, and who makes and sustains solid friendships fairly easily, I'll say this: if you make assumptions about people based on purely on how they look, you are going to struggle with relationships.  That's on you, not them.  I like people who are kind and down to earth and funny and all that good stuff.  If people are unkind or snobby or selfish, I don't engage with them.  Their looks don't factor in.

I was not always pretty, and was bullied pretty horribly when I was much younger.  Maybe that's taught me empathy, or not to judge a book by it's cover, but anytime someone avoids an entire group of people based on nothing related to character, that's a major problem.[/quote]

+1 this. Although i think I also fall into this category (was invisible to guys until late teens, then became attractive enough to get lots of compliments/modeling agent interest/attention from men), and i have to say, I think having the experience of not being as attractive makes now-attractive people more down to earth than women who were always that way.[/quote]

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