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[quote=Anonymous]You are being unrealistic about the education. Say you apply, get in get a higher paying job. Unfortunately you’ll be at that age of having to not delay getting pregnant. So you get pregnant. Now childcare is adding $16k-$24k a year. You’re not on the fast track at work. Believe me, during those infancy and toddler years, you are not being a superstar at work. Between all the childcare demands at home before, after work, the waking up at nights due to pumping, breastfeeding, kid cries for no reason, you’re not on top of your game at work. Forget getting promotions. It’s just the reality. Hell yeah he has a point and there’s a good chance the scenario he worries will happen. And I’m a DW saying this.

You have more expensive tastes than your husband. With your HHI age life jobs and other stuff, your husband is being the wise one. But hey, if he does not value organic or travel or other things that are important to you, you’ll be fighting about this even when HHI turns into a solid 200k. You have more expensive tastes but you cannot comfortably fund them. I don’t say this lightly, but you might be better off achieving what you want by trying to remarry to someone who earns a whole lot more. Please do it now, before kids. [/quote]

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