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[quote=Anonymous]OP again - no surprise that a few of you get kicks from insulting me. Simple anatomy lesson, the area that he applied pressure to was adam's apple which isn't prominent in women, but that is what it's called (cartilage covering the larynx). DH and I are not classless, quite the opposite. DH did not say I was over dramatic. He did have words with strangler, outside of restaurant. It happened quickly. He easily reached over a small cafe table. There was no scene. I got nose to nose and said my peace. He quietly left. Yes DH and I will continue to support friend's kids. They hang out at our house often. Friend is well aware of fiance's narcisstic, gaslighting behavior. I absolutely hear the posters who are commenting on the red flags. Despite this, I do not believe he would physically harm friend or kids. Honestly, he is a bit of a p**sy. Like a small dog with a big bark. Emotional abuser, yes! He definitely senses my dislike for him. He said some insulting things to her during dinner. I defended her and called him out. Friend is aware and planning to get her kids off to college before relocating, without him. Financially, they are bound at the moment. He knows we're watching closely. If she were ever in danger, she knows our home is her safety net. Some of her family members are local police department employees. She's well protected. My DS rarely goes to their home and if he does, there are many kids/adults around. He's 15 and can hold his own. The 18 year old clashes with him because she's very aware of his manipulative behavior. She's off to college soon. [/quote]
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