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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex married the woman he had an affair with. So far, they’d say it ended well. [/quote]

I know a few couples like this. They're happy and just view it as fate with unfortunate collateral damage. They enjoy their kids and happy families now and we have to pretend we don't know how it all got started. [/quote]

From experience, after 18 years of marriage my XW had an AP.  Kids are aware of what happened because she married him and they had a difficult forgiving her.  As to the AP, the kids want no part of him.  [/quote]

Sad to here that.  I am going through the same thing right now.  Besides counseling for the kids and me showing affection as a loving parent, is there any advice you can provide to lessen the pain/angry cause by my STBXW.  I do not talk bad about her but the kids are lashing out even when she tries to call or ask if they want to visit her.  I just came reminding the kids that their mother loves them.  And yes, it is painful on my part know that her extra marital affair caused our divorce. [/quote]

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