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OP here. We are one and done. I don’t know how to explain it ... it’s like since we’ve had a child, he is just oblivious to what’s going on around him. Our daughter will ask over and over for something, after I just got her something else, so I tell her to go ask her dad and he just blocks her out, until one of us (me or DD) yells at him to get his attention. We went on vacation a couple months ago, just the two of us, and the whole time, anytime we left anyplace, [b]I was like “phone, keys, wallet”? And half the time, he needed that reminder... it’s exhausting[/b]. This is what I expect to do for a 3 year old, NOT for a 38 year old.[/quote]

What would happen if you let him forget his phone, keys, wallet?  It's probable that the hassle that goes into dealing with those things will lead him to care more about not losing. He may lose his wallet, may even do it more than once, but the intervals between the times will probably grow.  Let him make mistakes, let him fail.  If you're constantly saving him he has no reason to need to pay attention. [/quote]

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