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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in the same boat! Ha that’s why I’m trolling this forum[b]. Except we have two kids now [/b]and while I will check him hard enough where he’ll stop for a while he needs zero convincing to stay out till 2 with his friends. It’s really shady and for all those posters who say lighten up, I really wonder if you’ve had to sort through the exaggerations, the lies, the hangovers, and the excuses? Part of me says he makes the bed, he has to lie in it, part of me says after midnight I will be dialing your a$$ until you answer and really come home. 
It sucks and will never change, because of kids or even if his friends settle down then you have the ones who pop back up because they’re divorcing. [/quote]

Umm... This makes your situation NOTHING like OPs. Going out with friends and staying out late drinking is fine when you don’t have children. Each spouse should go out and spend time with friends, work out, have hobbies, etc. That’s why people are defending OPs husband.

After you have kids it’s an asshole move to stay out late hanging out with friends. Family responsibilities come first and you need to devote time to take care of the kids. Next comes taking care of each other. Each spouse should get a similar amount of leisure time. There is no way that you can keep going to happy hours multiple times a week. Most weeks your leisure time will barely be enough to get in some workouts.

OPs husband’s behavior is reasonable. Your husband’s behavior is NOT.

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