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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was raised to be unsympathetic to things like this. I don't seek sympathy or give any to myself either. Like another poster said, yell help if you need help. I wouldn't expect my husband to come running because I bumped my head and made a noise. If I was hurt (broke my arm) and needed help I'd ask for help.[/quote]

Wondering what your home environment was like?  Was everyone like this?  It seems very hostile to me. [/quote]

I'm not this poster, but my house growing up was like this.  We were just calm people.  My DH"s family is the opposite, just high drama people.  Someone cut their finger in the kitchen, they are all screaming about how maybe that person should go the ER for stitches.  Really, it just needs a bandaid.  Bang your head?  Scream that you were almost knocked out and talk about you might have a concussion.  After a while, it's eye-rolling.  [/quote]

This is how I interpret this as well.  Was your husband there when you broke your arm?  did he drive you to the ER (or doctors or wherever)?  I've been raised to take care of myself.  If I hit my head, I don't need my husband to come running to...what....rub my head? I don't need sympathy for being a klutz.Your DH may just be a matter of fact kind of guy.  You need a ride to the ER, he's there.  You need him to coddle you.... call your mother.[/quote]

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