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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was raised to be unsympathetic to things like this. I don't seek sympathy or give any to myself either. Like another poster said, yell help if you need help. I wouldn't expect my husband to come running because I bumped my head and made a noise. If I was hurt (broke my arm) and needed help I'd ask for help.[/quote]

Wondering what your home environment was like?  Was everyone like this?  It seems very hostile to me. [/quote]

I'm not this poster, but my house growing up was like this.  We were just calm people.  My DH"s family is the opposite, just high drama people.  Someone cut their finger in the kitchen, they are all screaming about how maybe that person should go the ER for stitches.  Really, it just needs a bandaid.  Bang your head?  Scream that you were almost knocked out and talk about you might have a concussion.  After a while, it's eye-rolling.  [/quote]

PP here.  Funny, there was no drama in my house, but we certainly did not bury our heads in a screen or a book to purposefully ignore each other, and never pretend we didn't hear someone, especially if someone was in pain.  The normal thing to do is ask someone if they are alright. In DH's house, they would laugh, ignore or antagonize before they would ask that, which is why I am concerned for OP.  Some people are sick in the head. OP might need to seek help to get out of a bad situation.  Maybe your parents thought your house was normal - but not everyone's family thinks it is one extreme or the other, because it is not. [/quote]

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