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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It took me over 15 years. But much of that was my own fault...I thought if I could understand why she did the things she did, then the pain would go away. So I continued to ruminate on the whys and thus held on to the pain. I finally realized that I was never going to know why she did what she did, and that not knowing was okay. Once I let go of the whys, the hate and hurt left me. I was able to forgive her and now I rarely think of her.[/quote] I'm glad that you were able to come to terms with it and move on. Sometimes people behave in difficult to understand ways that have nothing at all to do with us. I'm glad you let her go. Hopefully she has learned from her past mistakes.[/quote]
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