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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not about falling in love again.
Tell him this is our responsibility to keep the family together for our kids sake.
As long as you can tolerate each other you can stay together.[/quote]

Why just tolerate each other? I'm having trouble figuring this out. I feel if I stay while simply tolerating my SO, I won't get to show my kids what a real loving relationship between two adults is. Instead they'll grow seeing cold, or at most, very straight forward interactions.[/quote]

Your kids don’t care about seeing you being absolutely 100% fulfilled in your sexual relationships. They just don’t. They care about stability and having dependable parents who are kind to them and to each other.

They would much rather have the above than sacrifice their family to deal with 2 stepparents and possible step siblings, shuffling between two houses, fewer financial resources, etc. You put a HUGE value on your relationship  fulfillment, but believe me when I say that your kids do not share that sentiment. If you choose to divorce so you can date someone you like better, fine, but own it. You’re doing this for you. It’s not a gift to your children. [/quote]

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