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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You found a good guy and your going to blow it up but I suspect this is not your first time messing up a good relationship.[/quote]

I haven’t “blown” anything up nor have a I messed up a good relationship. [b]I just want to spend time with him on weekends, and yet he is often away doing chores at his former wife’s house, which he hides from me. [/b]He lived there too for many years, so he wants to do the work. He tells me “no one else cares enough to do a good job.” One 18 year old kid still lives in the home.[/quote]

I actually don’t find it odd that he would help his ex with repairs on his former home, especially if there is still a kid living in the house.  He is also right that it’s hard to find someone that may care as much as he does about doing the job right.  The real problem is him not making time for you on the weekend and that he lies about what he is doing.[/quote]

I find it odd. That house is [i]his XWs problem now[/i], not his. If something needs fuxing, she should pay a contractor.[/quote]

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