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[quote=Anonymous]I think what you experience is very common. DH is the same when I am around and for things he is not usually responsible for. In my case, DH pays all the bills and files taxes for both. I take care of the house and the kids. We have a nanny and cleaners so I am not taking care of all the chores, but I am in charge of schools, schedules, activities, payments, nanny, etc. It’s not a fair distribution since taxes are filed once a year and the payment of the bills is usually automatic, but those are things that I don’t know anything about, never hear anything about, etc. For everything else, I have to tell my DH how to help. If he happens to be at home with the kids at lunch on weekends, I have to tell them what to cook, what clothes to change (even where the clothes are!), naps, everything... he helps, but I have to tell him EVERYTHING![/quote]
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