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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You found a good guy and your going to blow it up but I suspect this is not your first time messing up a good relationship.[/quote]

I haven’t “blown” anything up nor have a I messed up a good relationship. I just want to spend time with him on weekends, and yet he is often away doing chores at his former wife’s house, which he hides from me. He lived there too for many years, so he wants to do the work. He tells me “no one else cares enough to do a good job.” One 18 year old kid still lives in the home.[/quote]

OP, this isn’t about the ex or the house. It’s about him choosing to spend time away from you and hiding things from you. If he were choosing to spend every Saturday at a bar or on the golf course AND hiding that from you, you’d be just as pissed. This is about someone not being available for the kind of relationship you want to have. 
Move on. You want something different than he can or is ready to give. Doesn’t make him a jerk or you a needy person. This isn’t the relationship for you. [/quote]

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