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[quote=Anonymous]Three ideas: 1) agree with others that best case is you are honest with him, ideally in a non-blaming way. 2) if you can’t do that, can you come up with a lie that would save face with family and friends? “Oh, so sorry we won’t be able to rent that private yacht for everyone to sail to FiJi. Something has come up at work and I absolutely can’t go. Or my doctor says I can’t be on a boat for more than 15 minutes until we get my Blood pressure under control.” Or whatever. 3) if that won’t work, just tell yourself it’ll be fine and stay positive. Don’t dwell on it. I get the sense you have some social anxiety and this is a large group event. The anticipation is often much worse than the event itself. I’m scared of heights but if I absolutely had to do a hot air balloon ride, I would just steel myself for it and focus on not looking down. Maybe I’d love it![/quote]
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