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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband does this to me.  He also gets me gifts that he actually wants for himself and that I will never use.  It's frustrating.  This year for Xmas he got me a gift certificate for a massage.  No way I will ever use it.  We have had the discussion a million times.  I have a thing about strangers touching me, it's always been part of my personality.  It creeps me out and causes me anxiety.  I never get manicures or pedicures for this same reason.  I will NEVER use this massage certificate and I am perplexed at why he would even give it to me knowing that I would hate getting a massage.

I'm now and a conundrum.  I'm afraid to tell him I do not want this gift because I'm afraid he will call me ungrateful and get mad (but he KNOWS I would not get a massage).  Does he want me to give it to him to use for himself??

I have no idea what to do. :(  I told him what I wanted for Christmas, and he didn't get me that, he got me the massage certificate instead for some reason. [/quote]

Sounds like my husband. How many bath bombs have to go unused sitting on the edge of the bathtub before he finally understands that I don't want them, told him I didn't want them, and don't even pretend to use anymore?

I would give the massage certificate to someone else, not your husband. [/quote]

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