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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's really immature if true. FWIW, my child just bombed the COGAT, well not bombed but below the cut-off. Two of my friends' children (friends of DS) have scored very well.  I congratulated the moms and they commiserated with me. In no way did that affect my feelings toward them or their kids. Good for them. [/quote]

You’re not evolved. You’re all a little off for discussing scores. [/quote]

We are not Americans and [b]our[/b] concept of friendship differs from yours.[/quote]

How can that be?  My concept is you don’t talk specifics about things that could be hurtful to others. Example: being in pool, being invited to a party, etc. Your friend seems to agree with me. Who is the “ours?” [/quote]

Very easily, that's how. My mom friends and I chatted about our children's scores. It's not hurtful. If their kids scored better, good for them! It's not their fault my kid is a space cadet.[/quote]

I assume this is OP posting above.

You are asking about essentially your closest mom friend. You said, “I excitedly texted her that my child was in pool. She said her child did not do well on the test.”  This wasn’t some chit chat about your kids’ scores. You seemed to get you did something wrong when your originally posted, asking if you should apologize. You now seem indignant. And, I would not share with your pals what a space cadet your kid is - since your kid made it in the pool and hers didn’t. It will insult her even more, though I’m not sure you care.   [/quote]

This is OP. Previous posts were not me.[/quote]

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