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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d be annoyed.  People who cheat have character deficiencies.  Not sure what I’d do - maybe nothing in consideration of the 14 years since, but I’d never be able to get it out of my mind. If he rationalized it once, I would always be thinking he could rationalize it again.  [/quote]

Wait, so after 14 years of being married to someone, you wouldn’t be able to let go the fact that your spouse went on one date with you while he was about to end a relationship with someone else? You’re just as cracked in the head as OP. Do the two of you go to the same middle school? [/quote]

Correct.  No, I would not be able to forget that he had a girlfriend of a year.  A year!  Hello!!  That isn’t a casual relationship, and he admitted he wasn’t looking to dump her.  It’s gross behavior contrary to the person she thought she knew, and it’s why she can’t shake it.  [/quote]

Op here. I think this is where I am. It changes things . We’re no longer  2 thirty something introverts who met randomly on  the T because my car was in the shop. Now there’s a third person in the story who was hurt. He didn’t give me the choice to say if I wanted to be the reason they broke up. Worst of all he doesn’t see the issue. Yes I’ll get over it and I won’t divorce him, but those memories will now always be a little tainted.[/quote]

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