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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be upset. Not contemplating divorce, but upset. Even if he immediately broke up with her after the date, the date itself was still an infidelity, and I would never want to be a part of someone’s infidelity. By withholding that piece of information, especially for so long, he would have been taking away my agency to make a decision about the relationship with a full understanding of who he was.[/quote]

Do you really take yourself that seriously? You’re literally using the word “infidelity” and ascribing it to one date by a person who was neither married or engaged. 
Wow. [/quote]

I suspect that if you’d asked his girlfriend of one year back when they were still dating if she would be cool with her boyfriend dating other people, she would have said no. So yes, infidelity. Depending on the circumstances, I might have gone ahead with the relationship just the same, but by keeping it a secret he would have taken away my ability to make that choice for myself, which is at best disrespectful.

And really, he knows it was wrong or he wouldn’t have withheld the information for 14 years.[/quote]

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