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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, well in my experience it's because the guy took 5+ years to figure out she wasn't the one, but also spoke about "eventually getting married" to keep her from leaving. So she lets herself be emotionally vulnerable, doesn't have the opportunity to date other men, and invests time and energy only to discover that he really didn't care about her enough to let her go. [/quote]

Has nothing to do with the question asked.[/quote]

Yes it does.  If a guy or girl (I've seen both) pretends like they want to marry you for five years then leaves, that's gonna be hard to accept and legit grounds for resentment. Just like someone saying they are going to give you a job offer, so you turn down other job offers, only to have them back out for no new reason.  And btw it's truly shitty to do this to a woman or man in their waning fertile years-34-40.  I would put it right up there with cheating, frankly.  Completely selfish and narcissistic.  Hasn't happened to me but has happened to good female and male friends.  They were scarred.  Moving in together too soon can lead to this bad inertia, I think, even though I was guilty of this too and just got lucky.  [/quote]

My experience w/ friends exactly.[/quote]

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